The Epitome of Mommy Blog Post

by Meg on August 31, 2010

She sat in her room, furiously working at her table.

Squeak squeak.

I could hear the noises of her labor, though I was unsure what it was she was working on. She often disappears into her room to work on various projects. Art is most often the task, be it drawings or paintings or collages. Sometimes it’s a story she’s written and illustrated. Other times its building things, castles and bridges and barns.

Squeak squeak, then the sounds of tiny pieces scattering across the hardwood floor.

I automatically sighed, upset about the mess she was inevitably making. While I encourage her creativity, it always tends to create a disaster in its wake and I’m left to clean it up.

She finally ventured out of her room. “Mama, I would like to show you something.”

I braced myself for what was certain to be a mess, but was surprised when I only saw 3 pens sitting on her table…and nothing on the floor.

“I know how pens work. And how to put them together. Wanna see?”

Shocked, I watched as she took each pen apart, tiny piece by tiny piece. After the demolition was complete, she poked through her piles of parts and rebuilt each pen.

Squeak squeak. 

That sound I had been hearing was her screwing the final piece onto the pen.

Proudly, my little girl displayed her pens. She then launched into an explanation of how this spring right here…see this spring? When this part pushes on it, it makes the writing part of the pen pop out! See?

I couldn’t believe it. I was never the kid to take things apart to see how they worked. The closest I came to that was taking the battery covers off of everything I ever owned, and then promptly losing them. My mother hated it.

But somehow, I have a child who is smart and funny and artistic and who also wants to know how things work. She thrives off of details. She has the patience and the focus to see it through. And I think she’s pretty amazing.

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My Virtual Shoulder to Cry On

by Meg on August 24, 2010

I’ve not always been the type to discuss my medical issues. In the past, I never felt the need to disclose anything about my medical history. Since my health has been dealt a sucker punch, however, I’ve learned to be more vocal. I’ve learned what a valuable resource I have in this online community – a place where I can meet women who have gone or are going through the same situations I encounter. They offer me support and advice and love. We bond over horror stories.

 Today I was crippled with endometriosis pain and I took to my Twitter account, where I unleashed a barrage of “I feel like shit” complaints on all of my followers. I do feel bad that I was releasing all of that self-centered negativity on everyone, but the people who reached out to me really helped to lift my spirits. I’m in awe of such amazingly supportive people out there, which means a lot to this cynical gal.

If there’s anything I’ve learned it’s that I need to listen to my body and trust my instincts. It took years of testing before my auto-immune disease was diagnosed and that was only because I hounded the doctors until they relented and ran every test in the book. The same goes for the endometriosis. In the last few weeks, my body has been screaming at me to once again be its advocate. So instead of waiting around in hopes of relief happening on its own, I’m going to start hounding the doctors again. Am I tired of the array of medicines? Yes, but I am more tired of not being able to perform normal daily functions.

So please bear with me. In addition to these health issues, I’m dealing with the emotional aspect of it all. It’s emotionally exhausting to spend more time feeling sick than well. My poor family, while understanding, is tired of hearing me complain, which only stresses me out more that I can’t do all they expect of me. So this is where I choose to vent. I can only hope that I can one day pass on the loving advice and support that you’ve all given me to someone who needs it.

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The Next Chapter

August 20, 2010

I rolled the windows down and tuned the radio to my favorite red dirt radio station, and then I cruised into a town where I lived 6 years ago. As I drove, I was hit by how things had changed, not only in the town, but in my life. There was my old place of [...]

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These Things Only Happen to Me

August 18, 2010

Over the weekend, the stars aligned and we were given the rare opportunity to go camping with two of our best friends, minus our combined total of 4 children. While the kids love camping, the parents all love it more when we are not responsible for little human beings and can relax for a change. [...]

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Sea…Don’t

August 12, 2010

As you may or may not know, we recently purchased a new toy in our house. Last month we bought a SeaDoo, despite the fact that I don’t exactly have the best track record with them. We clearly forgot that I’m accident-prone and decided that buying the 255 horsepower model would be a good idea. Plus, [...]

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…And Extending Credit to all People

August 10, 2010

Awhile back I received a message from my best friend, instructing me to go watch a video on You Tube. The first time I watched the video, I was a little baffled. Was this for real? I read all the background info on the video and learned that, sure enough, this was the real deal. [...]

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Baring My Soul, Please Bear With Me

August 9, 2010

While in a restaurant recently, I ran into the parents of my childhood best friend. We were making small talk and catching up when the mother asked me where my children were. I mentioned that Cambry was in the restroom, but would be back in a minute. “What about the other one?” This began an [...]

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Common Sense Disguised as a Helpful Guide

August 2, 2010

This week, thousands of bloggers will travel to New York city for what is our mecca: BlogHer ’10. I will not be one of those bloggers. When the location was announced last year, I was beyond excited. Not only would I get to attend BlogHer again, I would also get to travel to a city [...]

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Weekly Winners: Appalachian Edition

August 1, 2010

July 25-31 All shots taken with my Nikon D60 (and a crappy kit lens that I realized on this trip is woefully inadequate) ***** I wanted to bring this rooftop home with me   Hello, Sunshine   On top of the world   My budding photographer   An unexpected, yet welcome visitor   For more Weekly [...]

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The Last of the Vacations

July 30, 2010

If you’ve noticed that I’ve been absent and you don’t follow me on Twitter…well…you suck. Ok, really. We’ve been gone to visit Shane’s family in North Carolina. I had every intention of blogging once we got settled into our vacation rental, but there was no Internet (or tv or air conditioning, but I digress). So [...]

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